MySpace OK's Child Safety Pact with 49 States

By Jonathan SaltzmanGlobe Staff / January 15, 2008

Massachusetts Attorney General Martha Coakley hailed an agreement yesterday between 49 state attorneys general and the popular social networking site MySpace as a "huge step" toward protecting children on the Internet.

Under the agreement, MySpace has endorsed a host of measures to shield children from inappropriate material and sexual predators who use the site.

MySpace, part of Rupert Murdoch's News Corp. and the most popular social networking site, has pledged to develop an e-mail registry that will prevent some children from creating online profiles. Parents will be able to send their children's e-mail addresses to the registry if they do not want them to post profiles on the site.

MySpace has also agreed to strengthen software prohibiting underage users, create a high school section for users under 18, and respond within 72 hours to complaints about inappropriate content. The networking site already takes some steps to protect children, including not allowing registered sex offenders to maintain profiles.

"I think today's agreement is a huge step toward safety," Coakley said in a news conference after the agreement was announced in New York City by attorneys general from Connecticut, New Jersey, New York, North Carolina, Ohio, and Pennsylvania. "This model of virtually all the attorneys general in the country agreeing with an industry to adopt these principles is, I think, unusual and a good thing."

MySpace has increasingly come under scrutiny from law enforcement officials in the past two years after some young users fell prey to sexual predators who posed as minors and then set up face-to-face meetings. Some teenagers have also misused the site to post information that led to bullying of others.

"This is an industry-wide challenge, and we must all work together to create a safer Internet," MySpace's chief security officer, Hemanshu Nigam, said in a written statement.

MySpace has agreed to set up an Internet Safety Technical Task Force that will explore technologies to help make users safer, including tools to verify age.

For the agreement to work, Coakley said, parents must teach children about the dangers of social networking sites.

"We are in a brave new world on this," she said.

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BU Student Charged in Alleged Assault on New York Girl, 13 - Police say they met on website

A 20-year-old Boston University sophomore appeared in a New York court yesterday on charges that he sexually abused a 13-year-old girl he met on Facebook.com, the popular social networking website, prosecutors said.

James Bogush, a business major from Ridgewood, N.J., was in Scarsdale Village Court to face charges of second-degree sexual abuse and endangering the welfare of a minor, both misdemeanors, said Christina Frantom, a spokeswoman for the Westchester district attorney's office.

He turned himself in and pleaded not guilty at his arraignment, Scarsdale police said. He was released to his parents.

Kevin Kitson, a Westchester lawyer representing Bogush, did not return calls for comment. Bogush could not be reached.

Bogush and the girl, who also conversed through the eSPIN-the-Bottle website, had been chatting online for about three weeks before they met for the first time near her Scarsdale home on Oct. 5, police said. He allegedly told her he was 16 years old and living in Ridgewood, a suburb of New York City near Scarsdale, police said.

Lieutenant Bryant Clark of the Scarsdale Police Department compared youths meeting on the Internet to Russian roulette.

"Kids just don't know who they're playing with," Clark said. "We certainly log a lot of complaints with the Internet and children. It's really scary."

When the two met that Friday night, the girl sneaked out of her house, and Bogush picked her up in his Land Rover, Clark said. It is not clear how long they were together, but they kissed, Clark said.

The next night, they met again, police said. The girl's mother awoke at 3 a.m. and found that her daughter was not in her room. When the mother dialed her daughter's cellphone, the call went straight to voice mail. Then the mother called police.

A few minutes later, the girl called her mother back.

"The daughter was upset, and she said she was down the block," Clark said. "In the course of the meeting, he forcibly touched her in her private areas."

As police were responding to the mother's call, Bogush dropped her off near her house and drove away, Clark said. "We found her by herself."

He said Bogush, who faces up to a year in jail if convicted, has no criminal record.

Colin Riley, a Boston University spokesman, said officials will determine whether to investigate.

"We can't talk about any disciplinary action about individual students, but . . . the university has a range of options, from no action up to and including expulsion," Riley said.

Bogush is slated to appear again in court on Nov. 14.

On Tuesday, after New York's attorney general, Andrew M. Cuomo, accused Facebook Inc. of falsely advertising itself as a safe place for people to meet online, the company agreed to post new warnings to children about the dangers of using the site.

Facebook, which has about 47 million users, agreed to respond to user complaints about nudity, pornography, harassment, or unwelcome contact within 24 hours and to allow a third party to report on the website's compliance, Cuomo's office said.

"Social networking sites, popular among young people, have quickly gained members and appeal, but also act as a magnet for those who would prey on the young," Cuomo said in a written statement. 

 

 

 

 

Families of Abused Daughters Sue MySpace

Parent News Corp. also named in case

NEW YORK -- Four families have sued News Corp. and its MySpace social-networking site after their underage daughters were sexually abused by adults they met on the site, lawyers for the families said yesterday. The law firms, Barry & Loewy LLP of Austin, Texas, and Arnold & Itkin LLP of Houston, said families from New York, Texas, Pennsylvania, and South Carolina filed separate suits Wednesday in Los Angeles Superior Court, alleging negligence, recklessness, fraud, and negligent misrepresentation by the companies.

"In our view, MySpace waited entirely too long to attempt to institute meaningful security measures that effectively increase the safety of their underage users," said Jason A. Itkin, an Arnold & Itkin lawyer.  The families are seeking monetary damages "in the millions of dollars," Itkin said.  "Hopefully, these lawsuits can spur MySpace into action and prevent this from happening to another child somewhere," he said.

Parents, school officials, and police have been increasingly warning of online predators at sites like MySpace, where youth-oriented visitors are encouraged to expand their circles of friends using free messaging tools and personal profile pages.

MySpace has responded with added educational efforts and partnerships with law enforcement.

The company has also placed restrictions on how adults may contact younger users on MySpace, while developing technologies such as one announced Wednesday to let parents see some aspects of their child's online profile, including the stated age. That tool is expected this summer.

"MySpace serves as an industry leader on Internet safety, and we take proactive measures to protect our members," Hemanshu Nigam, MySpace's chief security officer, said in a statement. "We provide users with a range of tools to enable a safer online experience."

But he said Internet safety is a shared responsibility, requiring users to "apply common sense offline safety lessons in their online experiences and engage in open family dialogue."

The lawyers who filed the latest lawsuits said the plaintiffs include a 15-year-old girl from Texas who was lured to a meeting, drugged, and assaulted in 2006 by an adult MySpace user, who is currently serving a 10-year sentence in Texas after pleading guilty to sexual assault.

The others are a 15-year-old girl from Pennsylvania, a 14-year-old from upstate New York, and two South Carolina sisters, ages 14 and 15.

Last June, the mother of a 14-year-old who says the youth was sexually assaulted by a 19-year-old user sued MySpace and News Corp., seeking $30 million in damages. That lawsuit, pending in a Texas state court, asserts the 19-year-old lied about being a senior in high school to gain her trust and phone number.

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myspace.com Postings Get Students in Hot Water
David Marino Reports Dec 20, 2006 09:37 AM EST

A popular website is landing some San Manuel students in hot water.

School administrators are sending out a warning to kids: Be careful what you post online.

You've probably heard of the website "My Space", where you can create a profile of yourself and talk to others online.  

It's popular with teenagers, but in some cases, teens are posting pictures that are getting them in trouble.

School administrators in San Manuel are dealing with the problem first hand.

Students at San Manuel High have been e-mailing the principal photos of their classmates taking part in illegal activities.

Those pictures are posted on the students personal myspace.com accounts.

In some cases, administrators are taking disciplinary action.

San Manuel High Principal John Ryan says, "People are forwarding out information about them that they intend to be private, whether it's good or bad.  It could just be names, addresses, school information."                     

In some cases, Ryan is receiving some unflattering pictures of his students.

"Pictures of people, items that they shouldn't have, it could be alcohol related."

That's putting some kids in a sticky situation.

Ryan says, "The school is forced to respond based on state laws that if it endangers a child it has to be reported to the proper authorities."

Administrators have met with athletes and the student body to address the "my space" issue, and to remind them about the district's code of conduct."

Principal Ryan says he has warned students to clean up their my space account if there's anything on it that could get them in trouble, but he's quick to point out that his job isn't to censor anyone."

He says, "No, we're not going into my space. Things are sent to us from that.  We have no ability to get into their private things and nor do we have the time or energy."   

Joel Berry's son is a freshman at San Manuel High School.

He believes it's a parent's responsibility to police the web.                  

"I don't think it's the role of the school to police the web."

Berry says he monitors his son on the internet.

"I visit it.  I also scan his transmissions and I monitor what his usage of the net is."  

But students like Vincente Zazueta are taking the side of administrators.

"Kids should watch what they put on to their stuff, so they don't get in trouble and they don't mess up their school sports and activities that they do." 

 

MySpace' Forum Keeps Kids and Parents on Same Page

The Tucson Cascades, Oct 23, 2006 07:40 AM EDT

To many, "MySpace" is like outer space... a place they'll never go.

But kids today spend a lot of time on "MySpace..." and parents say they need to know what the teens are doing.

A forum was held on Sunday in Tucson to teach parents how to keep their kids safer.

"MySpace" is considered one of the coolest hang-outs for teens.

To say the "Myspace..." social networking site has simply "grown" in popularity since it began three years ago...would be an understatement.

But in many cases, it has also become the focus of intense parental concern.

The idea of the forum was to educate both teens and parents about the site and put everyone on the same...page.

How can parents "Predator proof" what their kids do online...?

The experts say, understand "MySpace" and the other sites like it.

Many say in today's world...trying to keep kids off... is a mute point.

"Parents say to me a lot 'How can I just keep my kids off 'MySpace?' and my advice is 'that's going to be a losing battle,' " says Dr. Stephen Russell.

Russell teaches family studies and human development at the University of Arizona... and says it's important to talk to your kids about the potential risks... but also potential benefits of having a "MySpace" account.

"Kids need to know about the internet- they need to become internet literate in this world and better that we help kids develop the skills and the critical thinking to know what's safe, to know what's healthy," he says.

He also says parents need to set the ground rules early, so that their teenagers are only socializing with the friends they already have...not making new ones online.

Parents, like Jerri Oldham attended the forum to learn more about the "MySpace" website and educate herself about what her 13-year-old daughter, Lenaie is doing online, "These kids are naive and they really don't who they're talking to."

Lenaie is the oldest of Oldham's two young girls. She says she's very active on her "MySpace" account... but its set to private, meaning it can only be only accessed if Lenaie approves it...

"I think that some of them can just be way too over protective over this and the kid's just want to communicate with each other," Lenaie told us.

While the internet can be an unsafe place... experts remind parents that they are the ones in control... as long as they know what their child is up to.

"You wouldn't invite a stranger into your home...  that's kind of what's happening online- so how do we know these people? Are these people we can trust?" says Doctor Russell.

There are more than 63,000,000 members on "MySpace..." with 230,000 new members signing up, everyday.

If you want to know more about keeping your kid safe online... stay on this site, click on "News" and then "News Links.

MySpace Teen's Overseas Trip Renews Social Networking Debate

Advertisers are torn about how to use social networks, since they offer a chance to tap into a medium where a marketing message can be passed along virally to a key consumer niche but also the obvious drawbacks. "There's a lot of very careful analysis being done on that question" of whether to advertise on the sites, Outsell Vice President Chuck Richard told the E-Commerce Times.

A Michigan teenager who tricked her parents into getting her a passport and flew to the Middle East to meet someone she met through her MySpace.com page is back at home, with her misadventure stirring renewed debate about the safety of social networking sites that target a young audience.

Katherine Lester, who will turn 17 later this month, was detained in Amman, Jordan as she attempted to make her way to meet a Palestinian man she met through MySpace.com.

The high-profile incident, along with numerous others linked to MySpace in recent days -- including bomb threats that closed schools in both Oregon and suburban Chicago -- are renewing debate about whether the sites are appropriate for the young users who make up the bulk of their membership. The debate comes as more major advertisers are moving to embrace the social networking trend, recognizing a rare opportunity to tap into a much sought-after demographic.

For its part, MySpace.com said the incident involving Lester underscores the need for parents to monitor their children's online movements.

"At MySpace, we take seriously our responsibility to provide a safe and well-lit community for all our members," Chief Security Officer Hemanshu Nigam said in a statement. "The Internet is a powerful tool for connecting people with one another and, at the same time, parents are learning that they must teach their teens how to be safe and smart online."

He added that "every page of our site provides a direct link to safety tips and we offer special safety features for our younger members." The site recently added links to The National Center for Missing and Exploited Children as well.

Defenders of MySpace note that thousands of cases of adults luring teens take place online and most do not involve the site or other social-networking destinations. Detractors say the nature of the site -- which invites users to post personal details and photographs -- makes it a logical landing point for those with ill intent.

MySpace, which is now owned by the online arm of Rupert Murdoch's interactive online division, also notes that its membership has grown well beyond the teenage demographic that draws the most attention. According to figures from comScore Networks, 22 million adults aged 35 and older use MySpace on a regular basis and some 60 percent of unique monthly visitors are over the age of 25.

 

Violent Message on MySpace Upsets Winthrop High School

WINTHROP -- Educators in this North Shore town tried to calm parents and staff at Winthrop High School yesterday after a freshman at the school was arrested for allegedly compiling a ''hate list" and threatening other students.

The stunning news unfolded in Winthrop , but the student was not identified because he is a juvenile.

Winthrop school officials mobilized yesterday to inform parents and faculty members about threats the student made verbally, posted on his MySpace.com account, and scrawled in notebooks found later at his home.

None of the written threats directly targeted the Winthrop school community, Superintendent Steven Jenkins said, but the incident was enough to shake parents in the oceanside town of 18,000 just north of Boston, where yesterday children played baseball games, adults hit the links at a nearby course, and airplanes thundered overhead on their approach to Logan International Airport.

After a 90-minute, closed-door meeting with school officials and police, about 150 grim-faced parents filed out of the school. Some had tears in their eyes. Many declined to speak with reporters.

School officials said they planned to address students about the incident this morning in a school assembly.

''This is Winthrop, nothing happens here," Jenn Marley, a 16-year-old sophomore, said yesterday. ''That's why this is so creepy."

The student was taken into custody Friday after allegedly making threats against a number of students and at least one adult, Winthrop police said. The student, who had been in another school district until September, had earlier been in an ''altercation" and made verbal threats to another student, Jenkins said.

After the altercation, several students asked school officials to review the student's Web page on MySpace.com. The site has been taken down, but students who saw it say it included a photo of a person wearing a mask and a vest and carrying a gun in each hand.

The page, along with notebooks found at the student's home, included a ''hate list" with names of those he did not get along with, Jenkins said. Jenkins did not say whose names were on that list, but added that those listed were not from Winthrop.

''There was enough indication, with evidence and materials found at the house that said, 'There's something beyond reasonable here, even if it's not illegal right now,' " Jenkins told reporters yesterday outside the school. ''Taking all of the pieces together, there's something that's beyond reason."

MySpace.com is a social networking website with 65 million members, many of them teenagers who can create their own Web pages, with photos, journal entries, and other information they want to broadcast.

Public schools throughout Massachusetts have been warning parents and students about using the site, and law enforcement officials have started paying more attention to what teenagers say on it.

School officials have been more cautious since the 1999 massacre at Columbine High School in Littleton, Colo. Locally, several students are being prosecuted for an alleged 2004 plot against Marshfield High School.

In Winthrop, police said ''significant evidence" was discovered that convinced them that the threats were credible, but they gave no details and did not elaborate yesterday.

There were no guns found at the youth's home, said David Procopio, a spokesman for Suffolk District Attorney Daniel F. Conley.

''I feel absolutely safe sending my junior to school tomorrow," said Wendy Millar-Page, who was interviewed outside the school after yesterday's meeting. ''It made me nervous and sacred, and it's a little unsettling, [but] I'm sending my child with full confidence."

It was unclear yesterday whether the student would be charged, but Jenkins said school officials plan to hold a suspension hearing.

The student was hospitalized Saturday for an unspecified medical evaluation, Procopio said.

''I think people are thankful that the police and superintendent are handling this properly," parent David Pevear said after the meeting.

 

Another MySpace Arrest

BETHEL 5/22/06— A Newtown man was charged today with risk of injury to a child after allegedly engaging in sexual conversations with Bethel girls he met on www.MySpace.com.
Eric Bassett, 25, of Birch Hill Road, was also charged with attempted risk of injury to a minor and attempted second degree sexual assault.
He is being held on a $50,000 bond with an arraignment date of Monday
Bethel police Det. Tom Murphy said the investigation that led to Bassett’s arrest began about two weeks ago, when the parents of two female juveniles contacted police.
Police said that about four months ago the two girls — friends who were both 13 at the time— met Bassett on MySpace and began having conversations of a sexual nature.
"That evolved into instant messaging via AOL and moved on to (the girls) giving out telephone numbers," Murphy said.
Police said Bassett met in person with the two girls on one occasion and met again with one of the girls on at least one other occasion.
 

Massachusetts wants MySpace crackdown on Predators

BOSTON --Massachusetts on Tuesday called on popular teen social networking Web site MySpace.com to strengthen protection of children against sexual predators, including raising the minimum age for users to 18 from 14.

The arrest on Tuesday of a 27-year-old man in Connecticut on charges of illegal sexual contact with a 13-year-old girl he met through MySpace underlines the risks of the fast-growing Internet site that boasts about 60 million members.

"MySpace has not taken sufficient steps to ensure that the MySpace Web site is a safe place for minors," Massachusetts Attorney General Tom Reilly said in a letter to MySpace.

He said a three-month investigation found that potential child predators were surfing MySpace seeking chats with potential victims and violent images or content were being posted to bully children.

"An adult can register as a minor member and use that profile to seek access to the profiles of countless underage members," he said in a statement.

MySpace allows teenagers and young adults to find friends and express themselves by posting profiles and blogs, or Web journals covering everything from their favorite singers to schoolwork and intimate personal details.

It generated a blizzard of headlines in national media this year that have raised alarm with parents and school authorities -- from "Man arrested in MySpace.com teen-sex case" to "Sex predators are stalking MySpace; is your teenager a target?"

Connecticut authorities said in March that two men -- one age 22 and the other 39 -- were arrested on allegations they had sexual contact with minors they met through MySpace. Another man was arrested early on Tuesday at a Connecticut hotel after a mother reported her daughter missing.

'HAPPENING MORE AND MORE'

In February, California police arrested a 26-year-old for felony child molestation after he met a 14-year-old on MySpace.

"It's happening more and more all the time, both through MySpace and through chatrooms and other blogging sites," said Christina Slenk, a director of Web Wise Kids, a nonprofit Internet safety organization based in California.

Reilly, a Democrat running for governor, said his staff raised the state's concerns in a March meeting with officials at MySpace, which media mogul Rupert Murdoch's News Corp. bought for $580 million last year.

MySpace authorities were not immediately available to comment but its chief executive, Chris DeWolfe, told Reuters in March that it had several measures in place to prevent abuse.

He said the site prohibits children under age 14 from using it and restricts access to the profiles of 14- and 15-year-olds, allowing them to be contacted only by users that they add to their buddy lists.

MySpace also uses software to identify minors, flagging profiles with terms likely to be used by children under age 14. But DeWolfe said there was no fool-proof way to verify the age of all users.

Reilly said his investigation found that the safeguards failed. He asked MySpace to install an age and identity verification system, equip Web pages with a "Report Inappropriate Content" link, respond to all reports of inappropriate content within 24 hours and significantly raise the number of staff who review images and content.

He also wants filters to block sexually explicit or violent images, deletion of profiles of people who have abused the site, removal of all advertisements deemed inappropriate for children and free software that allows parents to block MySpace

 

MySpace.com Hires Official to Oversee Users' Safety 

MySpace.com, the social networking Internet site popular with young people that has alarmed some parents and law enforcement officials concerned about sexual predators, announced yesterday that it was hiring a former federal prosecutor to be its first chief security officer.

The site, acquired last July by the News Corporation, which also owns Fox Broadcasting and DirecTV satellite television, is used by young people to post personal pages that can include their photographs and other details about their lives and interests so they can interact with others on the site.

Because of concern by parents and school and law enforcement officials that the site sometimes unwittingly makes young people vulnerable to pornographers or predators, the company has hired Hemanshu Nigam, director of consumer security outreach and child-safe computing at the Microsoft Corporation, to oversee safety, education and privacy programs and law enforcement affairs.

Mr. Nigam has also served as a federal prosecutor of Internet child exploitation cases, an adviser to a Congressional commission on online child safety and an adviser to the White House on cyberstalking.

"Hemu is a proven leader in online safety and security," said Chris DeWolfe, chief executive of My- Space. "We are fortunate to have him join MySpace, help us educate the public and protect our members' safety and privacy."

Mr. Nigam's appointment was reported yesterday in The Los Angeles Times.

The company also announced that it was starting an advertising campaign, in conjunction with the Advertising Council and the National Center for Missing and Exploited Children, to educate parents and young people about Internet safety. The Ad Council will team with the News Corporation to run public service announcements on MySpace and other Web sites and television channels of the News Corporation.

The commercials will caution young people to be more skeptical of strangers who approach them online.

The ad campaign was reported Monday in The Wall Street Journal.

MySpace is not the only site dedicated to social networking among the young — others include Xanga.com and Facebook.com — but it has attracted much attention from parents, school officials and law enforcers, possibly because of its popularity. It now has 65 million members, company officials said.

Last October the site had 32 million users, and company officials say it is now second only to Yahoo in page views, a gauge of audience size.

Law enforcement officials in many states have been pressing MySpace to take measures to protect children who use the site.

Richard Blumenthal, the Connecticut attorney general, who says he has been meeting with MySpace officials for months to ask them to undertake more stringent security measures, said yesterday that he was somewhat pleased with the company's actions.

"A public safety campaign is a welcome step toward protecting children from pornography and predators — and people looking for sex — but must be followed by more significant, specific measures that we have also urged MySpace to take," he said.

Among the proposals Mr. Blumenthal has discussed with MySpace are more stringent age verification measures and free software to let parents block the site from their home computers.

News reports suggesting that predators monitor chat rooms and Web sites like MySpace.com for potential victims has prompted a rise in warnings from school officials across the country to beware of such sites.

Last week, the police arrested Brian J. Doyle, a spokesman for the Department of Homeland Security, and charged him with trying to seduce someone he thought was a teenage girl online.

The arrest was a result of more aggressive policing of sex crimes on the Internet as use among young people has grown, law enforcement officials said.

 

The Pros and Cons of MySpace

Written by Joe Holmes, 18 years old, The Free Lance -Star,  3/20/2006NY 

A teenager without a MySpace these days is at a distinct disadvantage when it comes to being popular. The disadvantage is not about lacking real friends, mind you. Relationships formed on MySpace lack any real intimacy. But MySpace users pride themselves on the number of "friends" on their profile. So what real relationship do kids have with those hundreds of pictures and names on their profiles?

Popularity in the MySpace universe is measured by the number of those not-so-close "friends"--to add to a list of "friends," displayed conveniently in bold letters on each profile. The process of collecting these Internet cronies can become quite habit-forming.

"It's addicting. If I'm bored, I check it. I'm always on it. I'm always looking on everyone else's. People who use it know how addicting it is," says Rachel Menks, a senior at Stafford High School.  Most teenagers understand that MySpace can be dangerous, cheapens bonds, and adds yet another stressful, superficial necessity to a teenage social life.

So why does nearly every young person (myself included) have one?

Music hath charms.

The first thing is the music. MySpace makes it possible for anyone, anywhere, to submit MP3s of their own creation and have them audible throughout the globe. "I used to book shows, so I've met a lot of band members and then their friends--so MySpace is great for the music industry," says Kirsten Steinbacher, a student at Germanna Community College.

Indie hip-hop artist/producer Antonym adds, "It'll introduce you to people who might want to buy beats or use them, which is good. It mostly helps with promotion, because everyone wants to share a fanbase--which is the great goal of like-minded musicians."

More popular than the music scene is the simple social networking the site allows. MySpace cuts the physical barrier between communicating--even more than its Internet predecessor, AOL Instant Messenger.

No longer does a girl need to wonder what flattering compliments on her physical appearance friends and hopeful suitors say when she's not there. Onlookers can comment 24/7 on her appearance from pictures displayed in the upper-left corner. Usually several more photos can be seen by clicking a link.

Steinbacher says one of the reasons MySpace is so popular is "to make yourself feel better by taking pictures that make you look better than you actually are."

Pictures are the heart and soul of MySpace. Very rarely do you find a profile that lacks one. Most have several.

Comments on these pictures are a valuable commodity, as evident by a bulletin (messages sent to all friends) by one user that reads, "If you comment on my pictures I'll comment on three of yours!"

Want to know what some typical observations contain? Here are the comments on a picture of an Exxon tiger with an outstretched paw, as a 16-year-old girl with a skirt on stands in front of it, looking shocked:

"damn id love to be that tiger"

"is there any way to sign up to be the exxon tiger mascot? i would like to be him"

"those beautiful eyes are the size of New York in my heart!:-)"

MySpace has this warning on its picture-upload page: "Photos may not contain nudity, violent or offensive material, or copyrighted images. If you violate these terms your account will be deleted."  However, many young people that use the site push the limit of what this warning suggests.

One quick glance through some teenage girls' pages will make most parents want to send their children to military school. For instance, here's a brief description of what photos one can see on these pages:

A 15-year-old girl and one of her (also underage) friends appear in their underwear.

A 14-year-old is bending over and taking a picture of her rear end with the caption "Gotta have a picture of the back!"

The implications of this premature foray into sexuality are twofold. First, the shield of the Internet and the way it removes anxiety due to its removal from real-world pressures makes it possible for both boys and girls to be more confident.

A couple of keystrokes on a computer and one can ask their crush on a date--as opposed to the gut-wrenching stress of doing it in person. This undoubtedly expedites the progression into becoming sexually active.

The second problem is of vastly greater importance: MySpace is an easy place for old men to find young girls. Steinbacher had her own encounter with online stalkers, and she recounts it thus: "Yes, it's quite disgusting. For example, I love junior mints and fountain coke, and it says that on my profile. I get messages from 30-year-old men saying 'I'd love to buy you a fountain coke!' It's creepy."

According to MSNBC.com, Sonny Szeto, 22, and Stephen Letavec, 39, were arrested on charges of illegal sexual contact with minors they met through MySpace. The alleged victims were 11 and 14.

In Battle Creek, Mich., an Internet predator was caught in a sting. A teenage girl told her school's resource officer that she had received some creepy messages and that they should be checked out. The police set up a fake MySpace profile, posing as a 14-year-old girl. Their sting operation was successful--and goes to show the anonymity of the Internet can be used for good, too.

No region seems immune. There are sexual predators in our own area, and MySpace has been a tool used by predators looking for easy victims, as well as police stings looking for predators.

Some of the uses of MySpace are overtly frightening. One user posted this quote: "My darkest secrets are your darkest fantasy." In the profiles "About Me" and, "Who I'd Like to Meet" sections, there is this: "You don't need to know anything about me I don't want to know anything about you. I'd like to meet 'younger' (I am 25) girls who are interested in fulfilling some longstanding fantasies they would otherwise be embarrassed or shy about."

Nevertheless, some young girls still see more advantages to MySpace than the threat it might present to them--and say that caution can prevent disaster.Pam Henson, a junior at Stafford High School, says, "If you're smart about it, it's safe."

 

 

Boys' MySpace.com Prank Results in Arrest

By Associated Press, Tue Mar 7, 6:55 

FONTANA, Calif. - A group of boys who posed as a 15-year-old girl for an Internet prank ended up helping police arrest a 48-year-old man who tried to meet the fictitious teenager for sex, authorities said.

The five boys had created a fake profile of a girl on MySpace.com _ a social networking Web site _ to cheer up a friend who had recently broken up with his girlfriend.

But soon, a man began sending messages to the "girl" and their conversations began to have sexual overtones, said Fontana police Sgt. William Megenney.

The man also sent the "girl" his picture and arranged to meet her at a public park. The boys went to the park and, when the man arrived, they called police.

Michael Ramos, 48, of Fontana, was booked into West Valley Detention Center on Monday for investigation of felony attempted lewd and lascivious conduct with a child and for an outstanding warrant, Megenney said.

He was being held at the West Valley Detention Center on $105,000 bail, according to the San Bernardino County Sheriff's Web site.

A dispatcher who answered the telephone at the center early Tuesday said the facility does not allow phone interviews with inmates. It was not immediately known whether Ramos had a lawyer.

Two men were arrested last week in what prosecutors said were the first federal sexual assault charges involving MySpace. The unrelated cases involved Connecticut girls who were 11 and 14, the FBI said.

 

Website's Power to Overexpose Teens Stirs a Warning

Principals of several Boston area middle and high schools are warning parents to rein in teenagers who are posting intensely personal information and, in some cases, provocative photos of themselves on a free Internet site.

The students, principals have said in letters and even in calls to parents, could become victims of predators.

One 17-year-old from the area posted photos of herself in her underwear on the website MySpace.com. Several high school students in Newton included poses of themselves holding beer cans, while some Newton middle school students lied about their age, principals said.

The creation of MySpace.com in 2003 and other similar sites in recent years has added another challenge for adults struggling to juggle safety concerns with teenagers' desire to explore the Internet. Internet safety specialists emphasized that parents should monitor teens' Internet use, but respect their space and warn them before checking their postings.

                              This teenager’s entries on MySpace.com offer little information to strangers in themselves. But Thomas Scott, executive director for the Massachusetts Association of School Superintendents, said that, ‘‘In the hands of the wrong people, it creates a bad situation.’’

 

Parents and educators already worry about strangers preying on teenagers in online chat rooms and unearthing personal information through online questions. But now, teens are making it easier for predators by posting photos and feelings on easily-accessed sites.

Educators are highlighting MySpace.com because, they say, it has become the most popular of such sites among teenagers. The site, now owned by Rupert Murdoch's News Corp. , says it has nearly 42 million users and began initially as a place for independent musicians to market their music. Xanga.com and Livejournal.com also attract teens, but have about one-fifth the users of MySpace.

''It's just another more formal example of kids going on sites and not knowing who they're talking to," said Thomas Scott, executive director for the Massachusetts Association of School Superintendents. ''In this case, they're posting pictures and thoughts and taking it to another level. In the hands of the wrong people, it creates a bad situation."

To become a MySpace member, users must check a box on an online form saying they are 14 years or older. They can join a group, and converse with members within that group via instant messaging. Groups have different rules on who can join, and many are set up under a particular high school's name.

Spokesmen for MySpace.com did not return several e-mail messages seeking comment; the site doesn't list a phone number.

The terms of agreement that users sign before joining say that users of MySpace.com may not include telephone numbers, street addresses, or last names. The agreement also says that photos cannot contain ''nudity, violence, or offensive subject matter."

MySpace lists 319 members in a Framingham High School group, 206 in a Marlborough High group, and 431 from Waltham High. Newton's two high schools have nearly 350 members, including 15 people in a group called ''Newton South's Hottest."

Teenagers from area schools who use MySpace say it is as compelling as television reality shows. Through the website, they can gain insight into other people's lives, learning what they look like, what music they listen to, and what they like to do in their free time.

Principals at several area schools recently sent notes to parents warning that provocative photos can tempt a sexual predator, who could then use personal information on the site, such as what high school a student attends, to track a teenager down. They are also concerned that teenagers posting their inner thoughts could be used by anyone from a cyber bully to a college recruiter.

In September, a 16-year-old girl in Port Washington, N.Y., was molested after a man she met on MySpace tracked her down because she had listed her workplace on her online profile, according to a USA Today article.

Newton North High School's principal, Jennifer Huntington, said she doesn't think students fully understand the dangers of the sites.

''It can be a wonderful tool, but it also has its pitfalls," Huntington said. ''And that's what parents should know about."

She said she also has concerns about the use of such sites reshaping school culture, with exchanges at night influencing what happens the next day in school. Several fights at school have broken out because of exchanges that began online, she said.

Hank Van Putten, principal at Oak Hill Middle School in Newton, recently sent letters home, telephoned parents of children using the site, and met with the entire eighth grade to warn students about some of the things they were posting.

''Although not a pornographic site, students were listing their ages falsely, and some included very provocative poses in less than full attire," he wrote.

Stacy DeBroff, who has an eighth-grade daughter at Oak Hill, said that the letter helped educate her about the site and spurred a family discussion about what is appropriate to post online. Her daughter did not have a site, but several of her friends did. Public school principals, in some cases, have advised parents to have their children remove certain photos and material, but they have stopped short of ordering students to remove postings.

Peg Mongiello, principal at Blake Middle School in Medfield, sent an e-mail to parents about the site last week.

''It concerns me when a child's picture, name, and address are so easily accessible to anyone searching the Internet," the e-mail said.

''Most kids at my school, contrary to popular belief, won't leave comments on their page that they're not comfortable with," said Joe Mann, a junior at Newton North. ''We have our common sense to use our best judgment on MySpace. At the same time, we're just kids, and we want to put pictures up."

Mann, 16, has a site that is laced with profanity, but also reveals that his favorite number is 22 and that his favorite food is ''whatever my grandparents make." His mother, Roberta Mann Driscoll, said she was comfortable with the things her son posted, including a photo of Patriots safety Eugene Wilson as the backdrop.

Mike Greene said he used the site to search for all girls in his age group within a 5-mile radius. As a result, the junior at Newton North ended up dating a girl from Cambridge for six months.

Several students said they believe some teens provide too much identifying information, but students said they didn't object to the posting of provocative photos. One of the best parts about MySpace.com, they said, is that it lets users do as they choose.

''Potentially it can be dangerous," Greene said of the site. ''But it's up to the user."

Ellie Benner, a 16-year-old junior at Newton North, said she felt uncomfortable when people messaged her and said she was attractive.

She said she was ''creeped out" and did not respond.

''If you're considered attractive or you have lots of photos," she said, ''a lot of people want to be your friends."

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